This is a very hard question....

About your story mrs tay, I know I would choose my father as, if I loved and object it wold be a big disappointment to my father loving an object over him. He is the only one who made me fell happy(other than my mother) and loved me and until now he still loves me a lot but, an object is only worth money but can never love me or take care of me my whole life. I would obviously choose a father rather than an object. And this will conclude that if some thief goes into my house or something, and asks me to give him some jewelry or he wold kill my father, I would rather give him my jewelry and save my father's life.